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Old 17th October 2016
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Actually you have been destroyed by watching too much porn. You married a 'normal' girl and you have expectations of a whore.

Actually sex is not about how many strokes per second .. neither how long or how short .. its a lot more .. lot much more ..
Brother, that is not right saying I expect a whore. Why say such things, what is wrong with enjoying porn and wanting to enjoy sex.

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From the want you gave I think you want a Whore not a wife

I think you hv read too many Porno stories, and seen Porno Videos- those are all fantasy. i think u hv a great wife who sucks your cock. I hav not herd any body( Indian wife) in real swallowing cum. So be happy and be real.

And I think u r not actually making her very exited, so her vagina is not secreting, and it hearts. There is something wrong how u r approaching her.

What you have describe is kind of rough sex, not love making romance. be romantic in bed. You are just trying to satisfy your lust. be conciderat....sex is both way thing.

GO TO A SEX COUNCEALER
So what if porn is fantasy, it is also FUN for BOTH parties if it is done correctly!!
She sucks my cock and that is wonderful but still improvements can be made.
If you read, i volunaterr to lick her pussy but she doesn't want it and feels shy.
I always start with foreplays of kissing her lips and neck and she is breathing heavily and feels excited and WET down there, it is NOT rough sex but fun and experimental sex that I wish to have.

I need to do more, yes, I agree, but so does she and hopefully it will improve.

Sex councelor lol they will just take my money for nothing dude, that is why I am here seeking help from the ground level with my brothers on this forum

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Seriously dude????
Who the hell told u, u r a stallion . 1 stroke per second??? That's okay as a midgame. In endgame and climax, this is definitely slow.
And a record of 250 strokes?? ???????
@ 1 stroke per second ur record is barely 4minutes and 10 seconds.
Assuming slow strokes or holding for few secs in beginning and faster ones at the end neutralizing each other, ur record in staying erect is 4 minutes and 10 secs.
The world average is 4 to 7 minutes. At ur average of 200 stroke u r 40 seconds short of average.
Stop imagining things.
As for her being BAD in bed, u r lucky she didnt get a teacher to prepare her for better perfomance with u.
Give the poor lady a break. She has to fulfil expectations of lots of in laws lot of things in an arranged marriage.
Destiny has dealt u an average hand of cards. U can play carefully and win or u can spoil things by being stupid.
ok I really said it stupidly lol
1 stroke per second AVERAGE over a session is very good dude, I vary my pace as you say.
and by SESSION i was meaning not entire sex but constant stroking in one lot, and then we change positions and go again!!
I am a very good stallion in bed and with great stamina and strong fit cock, she is lucky no doubt.

Obviously 40 minutes nobody does non stop, I space it out and get maybe 5-8 bursts of 4 min thrusting which I think is VERY decent.

I will not spoil things, I hope not, She is a great daughter in law so I am lucky and she is a sweet loving caring wife with a great smile so I am blessed by god. But things need to improve in bed, that is all, and I am sure it will.

Thanks for you message friend

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Hi
My 2 cents of advise.
I do not agree with a few of the responses that you are unrealistic expectations or are some sort of porn addict with too much of sexual expectation from a " nice indian girl".
What you do when you are having sex with your wife / gf is absolutely between you two. Experiment as much as both of you are comfortable with.
But do remember that most of the girls i have met are first not comfortable with their bodies leave alone sex.
Imagine the girls point of view in an arranged marriage, naked with a man for the first time in her life and you go boom boom boom !! Should have waited a month or two for the honeymoon or actual action!!

As written in kamasutra you should have taken it slow , embrace the woman, entice her, kiss her (do you?).for women, there is more to sex than penetration.
Now that you are well into your sex life, show and tell your wife that you appreciate her and love her and its not just sex , though sex is a BIG part of your life. Do housework, help her with family issues show that you are supportive.
Buy her lingerie , show her that you love her body and not only lust for it. Love followed by lust then love !
Got to go ! best of luck! do try to watch a documentary Sex in India
THANK YOU for such a sweet and kind response brother, you are so kind and caring and I wish others were not being cruel but that is their opinion and there is no such thing as wrong opinions.

Anyway, you are right she is not comfortable but she is IMPROVING a lot rapidly so it is going well!
Honeymoon, yah, you are right dude in Manali we had super fun but it wasn't 100% quality and we should have had practice first. But no harm done!! I am going to surprise her with another Himachal visit this year so we are going to have awesome fun again.

Yes I kiss her a LOT, and yes I help in the house and help her with her family, I am very super to her family and parents and they like me. I love her body and her midn and her soul and I always tell her, love is FIRST and lust is hand in hand with love and that is PERFECT for a marriage I feel

THank you brother for your kind words

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Well said and pointed. I dont think he is even reading all this. He wanted to prove that he is one of the best fuckers, and his wife nothing. But instead he found, no body is sporting him, and dont think he is a HE-MAN . And I think he has got a very good wife . He cannot even make her cum.
why so much hatred brother, that is just pointless to yell and make stupid assumptions! I am not here to prove ANYTHING I came for advice, that means asking for help and not teling everyone how great I am, I came here in need ! Read and then talk

And who said my wife is nothing? You said it, not me. When did I say I am HE MAN. Who said I cannot make her cum, did you personally watch us in bed? Seems like you are talking yourself up like you are the he man and the big fish in this friendly and kind forum.

Learn to speak with calm words and learn to be nice and not cruel and making assumptions about people which are completely false.

Peace brother

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Nothing wrong with her, just make her comfortable and she will do everything right. Don't force her.
I will never force her brother, only love and requests that is all

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U expected a Horny Bimbo and got an average next-door-girl as wife. True, that your expectations are high and you need to scale down.
Why do you need to have Public Sex anyway? In India, most local people feel disgusted watching such activities. So chill and do whatever u want in dark bed room
No dude I am not expecting a porn star just a loving wife with great sex that is all brother. Public sex, no way, I am not stupid. Just public kissing on a mountain and on a trek with nobody around was my only plan.

Peace

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dear friend,

your wife is very normal she is like all normal Indian girls.she is doing what all indian girls and wife normally do.

don't compare your wife with that of sone call girls or actress of porn movies.

you should keep your expectation as per reality not as fantasy.publicly showing of sex is not acceptable in India so do sex in close door only.
If she was a call girl, whore or porn star I would have said, but I said she is my WIFE and we are just wanting to improve our sex, that is all.

She is normal but I want her to be a goddess, nothign wrong int hat.

But I will also watch my expecation and try to be more accomodating, you are right on that. Peace brother.

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If she was a call girl, whore or porn star I would have said, but I said she is my WIFE and we are just wanting to improve our sex, that is all.

She is normal but I want her to be a goddess, nothign wrong int hat.

But I will also watch my expecation and try to be more accomodating, you are right on that. Peace brother.
slowly start convincing her to do what you like as you like to watch porn start with romantic films then b or c grade films then soft porn dont directly jump to hardcore as normally girls are not use to watch porn so watch slow and sensual porn only.
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If she was a call girl, whore or porn star I would have said, but I said she is my WIFE and we are just wanting to improve our sex, that is all.

She is normal but I want her to be a goddess, nothign wrong int hat.

But I will also watch my expecation and try to be more accomodating, you are right on that. Peace brother.
There's your problem. You have made an Image in your mind and your trying to mould your wife into that. Have you ever thought about what SHE wants? Maybe she doesn't want to be a goddess.

Try to be a friend of hers, share her likes, do what she wants. That's the key to a woman's heart. Once you've won her heart she'll forever do what you say. I'm speaking from experience.

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