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Seriously dude????
Who the hell told u, u r a stallion . 1 stroke per second??? That's okay as a midgame. In endgame and climax, this is definitely slow.
And a record of 250 strokes?? ???????
@ 1 stroke per second ur record is barely 4minutes and 10 seconds.
Assuming slow strokes or holding for few secs in beginning and faster ones at the end neutralizing each other, ur record in staying erect is 4 minutes and 10 secs.
The world average is 4 to 7 minutes. At ur average of 200 stroke u r 40 seconds short of average.
Stop imagining things.
As for her being BAD in bed, u r lucky she didnt get a teacher to prepare her for better perfomance with u.
Give the poor lady a break. She has to fulfil expectations of lots of in laws lot of things in an arranged marriage.
Destiny has dealt u an average hand of cards. U can play carefully and win or u can spoil things by being stupid.

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Hi
My 2 cents of advise.
I do not agree with a few of the responses that you are unrealistic expectations or are some sort of porn addict with too much of sexual expectation from a " nice indian girl".
What you do when you are having sex with your wife / gf is absolutely between you two. Experiment as much as both of you are comfortable with.
But do remember that most of the girls i have met are first not comfortable with their bodies leave alone sex.
Imagine the girls point of view in an arranged marriage, naked with a man for the first time in her life and you go boom boom boom !! Should have waited a month or two for the honeymoon or actual action!!

As written in kamasutra you should have taken it slow , embrace the woman, entice her, kiss her (do you?).for women, there is more to sex than penetration.
Now that you are well into your sex life, show and tell your wife that you appreciate her and love her and its not just sex , though sex is a BIG part of your life. Do housework, help her with family issues show that you are supportive.
Buy her lingerie , show her that you love her body and not only lust for it. Love followed by lust then love !
Got to go ! best of luck! do try to watch a documentary Sex in India




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Hello to all my new friends!!
Wanting some advice No actually, needed it, desperately, from this community hopefully I will get good advice.

Anyway my story: arranged marriage with a very cute wife from family friends recomdatation. She seems simple type, but she isnt that much, she's often getting angry but thats ok. Hot body, not bad breast, nice bottom, nice lips. All in all I will say she is maybe a 7/10.

Anyway, in bedroom, this is a problem, she is maybe 2/10 and I am very much not happy. We married last year and I had big plans in honeymoon, booked himachal winter tour and was expecting amazing bedroom times.

But so far, only disappointment!!

Will describe issues:
- wont kiss in public, only hold hands
- is shy of tongue kissing even in bedroom
- is shy of masturbating
- is shy of lights being on
- doesnt like porn
- only sucks my cok sometimes
- only swallow sometimes
- wont allow cum shots on her body or face

And then, the sex part is not great also, i have great staminas and very large size so she should be happy, but she only complains of being tired and sore. I can go every night for 20 minutes forplay and 40 mins continous high quality sex, I can go one cock stroke per second when in motion, and I do such a great job to bring up 150-200 strokes in a session, record is 250 cock strokes in her pussy.

Such quality sex and she feels sore and tired and says it's too much.
I volunteer to lick her pussy, she doesnt like.
I want to fuck her ass, she doesn't like.
Both of these only come 1-2 times in month and that is SO BAD

I take her shopping, buy dresses, I'm nice and very romantic.
Sweet talks, all that good things.
Honeymoon, wow, winter and snow and mountains

She says she is happy and STILL sex is too average for me

What do I do !!

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Seriously dude????
Who the hell told u, u r a stallion . 1 stroke per second??? That's okay as a midgame. In endgame and climax, this is definitely slow.
And a record of 250 strokes?? ???????
@ 1 stroke per second ur record is barely 4minutes and 10 seconds.
Assuming slow strokes or holding for few secs in beginning and faster ones at the end neutralizing each other, ur record in staying erect is 4 minutes and 10 secs.
The world average is 4 to 7 minutes. At ur average of 200 stroke u r 40 seconds short of average.
Stop imagining things.
As for her being BAD in bed, u r lucky she didnt get a teacher to prepare her for better perfomance with u.
Give the poor lady a break. She has to fulfil expectations of lots of in laws lot of things in an arranged marriage.
Destiny has dealt u an average hand of cards. U can play carefully and win or u can spoil things by being stupid.
Well said and pointed. I dont think he is even reading all this. He wanted to prove that he is one of the best fuckers, and his wife nothing. But instead he found, no body is sporting him, and dont think he is a HE-MAN . And I think he has got a very good wife . He cannot even make her cum.

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Nothing wrong with her, just make her comfortable and she will do everything right. Don't force her.
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U expected a Horny Bimbo and got an average next-door-girl as wife. True, that your expectations are high and you need to scale down.
Why do you need to have Public Sex anyway? In India, most local people feel disgusted watching such activities. So chill and do whatever u want in dark bed room

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dear friend,

your wife is very normal she is like all normal Indian girls.she is doing what all indian girls and wife normally do.

don't compare your wife with that of sone call girls or actress of porn movies.

you should keep your expectation as per reality not as fantasy.publicly showing of sex is not acceptable in India so do sex in close door only.
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Ok first of all BIG THANK YOU to all the messages from EVERYBODY
Yes even those being cruel, still, it is a message to me and I asked a question so I always thank an answer, and I will try to reply to all.

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Hmmm. Some females are like that.
Try to watch porn with her.
Talk to her about sex.

Slowly she will improve.
She is just conservative and nice, and feels ashamed of doing FUN sex.
BUT the good news is she said she is going to try and we are both like you suggest having a turn in watching porn. I am showing her all the good stuff and hopefully things will improve for me. We talk about sex too and she is open and chatty so that is also good. So, good signs!

Thank you brother.

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nothing wrong with her, what you are expecting is unrealistic, an*l, mast*rbation, kiss in public, c*ck sucking, p*rn, 250 strokes all seems too much from a indian woman.

i suggest you to limit p*rn watching and become more practical.
I do not wish for boring vanilla style sex I want passion and love, and that is why I am trying to raise the bar with her and not be like a normal couple but be something hotter and more special. So I am pushing boundaries. Why not aim high???

Anal, ya, going to take some work but we will get there.
Kissing in public, I meant somewhere only where nobody is around but she is still shy. I am not stupid to kiss in crowd.
Cock sucking is normal and should be done.
Porn is just for fun and for learning for both of us.

Thank you for your suggestion, I will try to be more honest and realistic to her.

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It takes time for normal village type (Garwali) Indian women to open up. Each Women is different, so is Man. U may think u r a stallion, but she may not want a stallion. Use lot of lubrication, since she is complaining of Sore. Go Soft on her. No one will allow to touch kiss in public all of a sudden, especially Village types. So start from your bedroom.. go slow then you can eat the whole thing. ensure she is enjoying sex with you.. its first impression now as you are married recently, if she hate you now.. it will be there for whole life. ... so go smooth..make and plan for theme, candle light dinner, sexy costumes, dance for her, sing and then slowly you can have her for your wish ... :P
Hi, great suggestion.

She is not a village type dude she's educated and of good background, but also simple and sweet and nice. I am a stallion and she will be very happy in bed, but I agree I need work and she needs work. Lubrication YES you are RIGHT and we are working on it.

Kissing was only in quiet place alone for romantic fun not in public. Slow is definitely the way to go, I want our sessions to be one hour every time of lots of foreplays and also main course and dessert

Candles, great idea and I shall try, costumes for her or me? She always looks amazing in her bridal wear and some expensive wear so we will try to have sex in those more. Dance LOL sorry dude I am a Sunny Deol and singing I am a Himesh, but she is superb at both, but then who is seducing who LOL

U are correct I need to also make more effort so I will, THANK YOU

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yaar thank god u got married . there is guy like me getting old with job and still no girl in whole world give 2 piece of shit for me
omg I am so sorry dude I didn't mean to sound like I am being so cocky and over confident. Brother I am lucky, I know this, and I thank god every day. God is with you too and you WILL find love I believe it. Wishing you all the best, maybe try to work less hard and work harder on finding a suitable match.

Good luck bro.

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